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Alone.

The inner you is the person whom you know the best yet is even utterly unknown. I have used Antithesis in the same sentence but give a moment's thought to my contradiction.
You know that the person established in your body is the most closest one and is an inseparable part of you but you don't know it entirely; don't know it's strength, it's power to retaliate and ability to stay alone by all means.

Staying alone isn't a trend which arised out of lonliness and was given a delicate name to dissolve it's cons. No, it's not that. Being alone is an art.
It can be best understood if you intiate your own meaning and see it through your own perspective.

People consider the love for staying alone and the hurt of being lonely to be the same flowers of the garden. It's not like people felt lonely, so they started staying alone and learnt this art; mind my words - 'learnt' not 'created'.
Let me bring this fact to light that there are many reasons of being alone- people might think that others would deny to understand the circumstances they have survived or they simply love their own company.

People want a person to complete them. It's cliché. I am not saying everyone to leave their friends and start staying alone - no - all I mean to say is that when time comes you have to bear it, alone.

Staying alone is not a disorder that people are so afraid of acquiring it; it is just the love for yourself and respect to the person who you want to be.

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